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To make it worse... for Donald, when he was very young, 2 1/2 to 3 1/2 approximately... his mother, who was really his only source of human connection and comfort... got very ill and was, to all intents and purposes, absent from his life. So he suddenly found himself, so young, basically alone in the world because my grandfather was incapable of filling the void left by my grandmother's absence. ...Because of the very vulnerable age he was when she became sick, I think on some level he experienced that as a betrayal. She didn't have the capacity to heal the rift, even after she was able to, and I think that stuck with him... (en) |